It's not an easy pit to get out of. There aren't really any great voices out there for getting out of it. Feminist communities are great at telling me how not to act, but it's very hard to find advice on how to act.
Incel is a mind view that is easy to fall into if you're a single guy who has been single for a few years and resent this fact. There was a time in which I would have unironically identified this way.
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I ended up looking to the "seduction community" for advice, and trying to reconcile it with feminist teaching that would allow me to still treat women as human beings. I do not really recommend this.
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Anyway, this is why I will often chime in when I see messaging for "teach your sons not to rape," I suggest that the messaging should be "teach your sons how to get consent."
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