If you’re not sure, make eye contact, move slowly and reversibly, say something dumb (yet funny) and see if she laughs... or just wait patiently until you like figure it out and just know or while she’s like deciding, man (woman; person). If you just can’t then ask.https://twitter.com/aella_girl/status/1224209813992693760 …
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SECRET TRICK: feel for “maybe-subliminal micro-resistance tests.” They might lightly resist or be stiff or still to see if you’re acting sensitively. So—sensitively micro be still, wait, move more slowly... They will soften and feel safe(r) because they are safe bc ur sensitive!
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Also generally if they get annoyed bc you’re being careful then don’t apologize and just like take them bc they know what they want and they’ll feel safe stopping you. But, you know, it’s still a mutual thing you’re doing together.
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oh, *hesitation* can be unattractive if it comes from in-your-head-indecisiveness. good to work thru stuff offline so you felt know what you want under various conditions. then even "hesitation" seems confident because it's about letting something unfold externally vs internally
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