I am hypersensitive to predatory men b/c two very special people in my life were violated. One by her brother, the other was by family and neighbors. Sickens me that people do this.
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Replying to @stlwrkr4889 @ASterling and
Rich, I am too very sensitive as my daughters were abused by the man I am divorced from that donated the seed to create their wondrous persons.
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Replying to @garden_heidi @stlwrkr4889 and
Sub human actually I should not call him a man.
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Replying to @garden_heidi @stlwrkr4889 and
I appreciate the consideration, but I was thinking about this recently: we absolutely should. Calling them monsters or sub-human is the mirror image of "NotAllMen." It's human, what they do, and many of us share complicity in toxmasc (I include myself). We can't wash our hands.
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Replying to @mattwsm @garden_heidi and
They are so misguided and so trapped. They are really gross to me but I see that they can't think of any other way and are trapped.
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Replying to @ASterling @mattwsm and
I stick with broken in the head asshole's that happen to good people. No good comes from empathizing with them, focus should be in protecting people from them and helping those they attack.
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Replying to @VryKranky @ASterling and
Empathizing isn't the same as understanding. Understanding gets to the root of the problem, and either prevent it or move the assholes out of the mindset. I would never suggest empathizing with White Sups, but understanding what makes them go Nazi would help stop them.
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Replying to @mattwsm @ASterling and
Understanding the systemic factors sure. Understanding an individual pathological asshole's justifications not so much.
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Replying to @VryKranky @mattwsm and
If you understand why people turn to WS, you stand a chance to reach them before they do. I think that’s what’s being said. Same with MGTOW or InCel or whatever. I try to only dehumanize those are at the very top of this hierarchical system fwiw.
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Replying to @ShaunHensleyCA @VryKranky and
The problem with a lot of these man-babies is that they’ve often terrorized their families their entire lives and got away with all of it. That’s why they think they continue that as adults. They need to learn they too can get what they dish out.
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I’ve never met an avowed InCel, but I have met a lot of people who fit similar toxic behaviors and beliefs. I think a lot of it does have to do with family dynamics and social indoctrination, but so do gang violence and terrorist activities.
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