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Logan Ury
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Author: HOW TO NOT DIE ALONE amzn.to/37og6he Director of Relationship Science
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Behavioral scientist/dating coach
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Every moment you spend in a relationship that isn’t right for you is a moment you could be finding one that is.
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Going for the EGOT
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I don’t post the books I read on here but truly loved this book so much. Dating to me is so scary and terrifying that I refuse to do it but everyone thinks it’s scary!!! @loganury you deserve a noble peace prize or an Oscar for this read!!
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New Mariah Carey remix: All I want for Christmas is an emotionally available partner who’s looking for commitment and wants to meet my family.
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63% of Hinge users said they’ve ghosted someone. Yet when asked how’d they’d prefer to be treated when someone isn’t interested, a whopping 85% said, “Tell me! Rejection hurts, but I’d rather know.”
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Getting attention from someone who doesn’t respect you is like eating too much junk food. It’s fun in the beginning but you ALWAYS end up feeling sick. Not getting any attention is better than getting attention from someone who treats you poorly.
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Is there a universal calendar reminder for single guys to text their high school crushes the Wednesday before Thanksgiving?
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Casual dating and sex ≠ f*ckboy behavior. Someone is only a f*ckboy when they lead you on, and make you think they’re more interested than they actually are.
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If you’re putting more effort into getting Taylor Swift tickets than getting your next date, you might be the anti-hero in your own love life.
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If you want to dress up like your ex: Tell the host you’re committed to coming to the party, and how ready for the party you are, and then at the last minute confess that you’re afraid of parties, and you’re not sure if you can ever go to a party. Then go to a different party.
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Dress up as your attachment style: * Securely attached? Wear an all-velcro suit. * Avoidant attached? Go as a non-stick frying pan. * Anxiously attached? Show up as a new puppy with abandonment issues.
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Mythical/fantasy costume ideas: * Unicorn. * Big foot. * A first date who’s attractive, went to the right school, makes tons of money, wants to get to know your family, asks thoughtful questions, and has been well-trained by their exes but is not still in love with any of them.
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If you want to blend in and look like everyone else on the apps: * Walk around showing off the dead fish you caught * Wear yoga pants and strike Warrior 2 pose * Tell everyone you’re looking for a step-parent to your cat, know the best spot in town for tacos, and love to laugh.
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If you want to get your crush’s attention: * Are they dressing as Batman? Show up as Robin — instant couple’s costume. * Are they a sports fan? Wear a jersey of their favorite player. They’ll get confused and accidentally post a pic of you on their Instagram.
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In honor of spooky season, here are three of the scariest scenarios in modern dating: Spooky: the “…” that shows up and disappears in your chat Spookier: a “U up” text Spookiest: the person who has Read Receipts turned on
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Six months from now, where do you want to be? Wasting your time with the same person who won’t give you what you want? Or dating someone new, because you did something hard, made a change, and worked toward find in a person who deserves you.
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