Listen...for the folks who seem confused by this. Asking if someone has a child is normal conversation, and my answer is a polite, “No.” Asking someone to explain why they don’t have a child is rude. Mind your business.
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You don’t ask someone why they don’t have children. You don’t ask someone why they don’t drink. You don’t ask someone why they’ve gained or lost weight. You don’t ask why someone is in a wheelchair. You don’t ask why someone has scars. These are not questions for total strangers.
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My rule is if you know someone well enough to ask, you know them well enough that they’d tell you if they wanted. SO NEVER EVER ASK. So sorry you have to deal with those questions.
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YUP I feel the same.
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My kids father is Moroccan. They don’t look like me & I was CONSTANTLY questioned. My kids hated it. One time a lady said “ she’s beautiful where did you get her?” I lifted my shirt and said “ my uterus, want to see the scar?”pic.twitter.com/gpLw4iAUsk
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WHERE DID YOU GET HER?!? Congrats on not murdering
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And then after that you get the "well you should just adopt." As if people dealing with infertility didn't already know that was an option.
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As if adoption is even that simple.
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Me: I’m infertile.
Them: *stare*
Me: *stare back*
Them: Well, I didn’t expect all that.
Me: And now you know not to ask.