In my experience, there are SO MANY words to learn in a foreign language, that once you learn enough of them the grammar will already be there. Focus on getting easy input and increasing your vocabulary!
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Once you have vocabulary, acquired through lots of listening and reading, the grammar explanations start to make sense and start become relevant to your experience.
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This is plausible and in line with usage-based theories in SLA