My tl is full of wtf re some "incel" garbage that's been going around, and I REALLY wish it wasn't. Even engaging with some ideas spreads their poison. Just shove it back into the creepy hole it crawled out of, remind yourself women are human, sprinkle salt, & go.
I'm not trying to derail your thread or anything, just responding conversationally, hopefully no offense was taken. I'm fortunate to somehow keep missing all the incel crap that goes around; it never makes it through whatever filters my bubbles have. :P