Absolutely, the gender role for boys is oppressive & stunting in its own right, particularly for boys who’s natural personalities fall well outside of the acceptable norms & expectations. But the gender role for girls whilst not as policed in younger years is even more oppressive
I have a pet theory this is what’s drawing such large numbers of young men to the trans trend, as well as incel/mgtow/mra groups. Girls are in the tumblr trans trend instead. All have in common a wish to stunt growth and entrance to adulthood.