I was part of inflicting pain and trauma on my dearest boy. I cannot go back and change that. All I can do is keep as I have in loving him, sacrificing my all for him.
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One day if/when either of my children have children of their own, I will have the conversation of how sincerely sorry I am, how it wasn’t my consent to give. Not my body to impede upon and that natural is healthy and beautiful.
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Don’t come at me, not trying to spark a fueled debate. Just sharing what I feel from my experience.
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I'm good. Glad I am circumcised. Have buddies that aren't and they deal with issues that I don't.
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What issues are they exactly?
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Not saying this blanket covers or that it justifies but a friend’s husband had to have an adult circ because he was having pain and the skin was tight and tugging.
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Never heard of that before and doubt it’s common. It’s a myth that uncircumcised men are dirty and have smelly dicks etc. Uncircumcised men also get more pleasure from sex as they still have all the nerve endings in the foreskin. Wouldn’t get cut for anything.
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I doubt it is a common occurrence. Not something making it a certainty to circumcise all infant boys.
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That anger if it happens be prepared for how it will make you feel to have your son angry at you. Understand that there is no defence you can offer that will sooth that anger. You did something to your child which goes against every instinct a parent should have, you failed him
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Easy there, born genius.

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Why? It's the most likely scenario once her son is able to fully comprehend what was done to him as a baby not only by some crackpot "Doctor" but also his mother the one person who should have protected him
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Because its not compassionate or ethical to condemn someone who did it out of ignorance with the best intentions and is expressing regret. Save that for those who do it out of fanatic religious zeal or some such twisted viewpoint. imho.



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It's a warning not condemnation (btw ignorance is no excuse, anyone with a basic education will know that carrying out an amputation without anaesthesia is going to be very very painful)
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I take with appreciation the warning. I do resent the insinuation of ignorance. I felt at the time it was the best decision. It was all I had ever known.
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Madam, you did good enough by making the story public! And you certainly help other ppl too not to make the same or who feel the same way as you do. Well done. Pls take my virtual support and a hug! All will be fine both with you and your child

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Thank you so much!
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Know better do better next time.
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And yet women rant about men supposedly wanting to regulate their bodies with anti abortion laws / beliefs. Shows how incredibly hypocritical women can be. Women seem to have no problem mutilating a defenceless boy’s genitalia but god forbid a man wants to protect a baby.
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I am just trying to make sense of my wrong decision on my part towards my son. Trying to research and find more evidence to go towards resolving it or finding supporting evidence. Trying to take myself into the future on the right end of it.
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