My observation is that if there is a tight relationship and one party is betrayed by the other (falling in love with another person), it's almost always irreconcilable.
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I've helped people try and struggle through that on both sides of the issue. The person who was betrayed and the person who did the betrayal.
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I have seen people grow up and not do it again. And this was in situations where their partner didn't know. In a couple of those situations, it seemed that it might even be described as a necessary experience for the person who did it. It helped them develop.
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I am NOT justifying that behaviour, but life is complicated.
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However, I think society works better, all things considered, when you make a promise. And you stick to it. One of the things I learned from reading Jung was that there are things in a marriage that you can't have unless you're all in. I believe that.
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If there's a back door open, to begin with, or a back door opens, then I think there's something about the relationship that's lacking at least. I think you pay a huge price for that.
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I think it is, depends on how the other person is going to take responsability for its own acts, in my opinion.
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once. Maybe. But it will never be quite the same again.
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The most true of any comment. After betrayal, it’s not the same-my *lived experience.* The woman I was is dead. The dregs, I burned and released to the sky. Maybe this is who I was meant to be. Yet the scars remain as my roots.
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only with justice.
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