I’m giving up online dating in 2021. For 20 years that’s been my main means of meeting gay men yet I’m as single as when I started. Time to try something new 
#NewYearsResolutions
oh- alllright, not really my area of expertise then- so dont know if I can help. I doubt that walking up to a girl and say: " Hey girl- I can disable your defender even in isolated core mode " works as well on men. I mean- you guys dont even like being called girl- right?
