I’d say I don’t completely disagree but when men’s “notice me” is mass murder, it makes this feel a bit too forgiving
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Observations in this about how women find men attractive forgets that women will more often look at a whole man. E.g. I don’t find most meat axes attractive. But Chris Hemsworth is so clearly just an all round good dude he’s attractive to me. Daniel Craig? Not so much.
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You could have muscles and money for days, it wouldn’t do it for me. But it also suggest women are so base as to not look beyond the body which we know is bs.
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Yeah, this. IMO the twitter thread I first encountered this article packaged in made it more palatable because the tweets were a hell of a lot less forgiving. Re men, I’ve never dated a “chad”, to use their terminology, in my life. I /exclusively/ date nerds.
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I don’t think this article is forgiving at all, but I have to admit that it’s not communicating its ideas very well. Or, that I’m really missing something here.
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I see this as an article pitched at blokes who have experienced the same issues that incels complain about, explaining to them in terms they should understand that the problem is nothing to do with women but with toxic masculinity and (damnit, here we go) the patriarchy.
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Hmm. If it is trying to do that it is being incredibly gentle. And it is that gentleness that those of us in demographics being straight-up violently murdered object to.
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Every time something like this happens we hear that men need to step up more, to actually talk to other blokes & tell them they are wrong, to explain how systemic sexism is the problem and they need to fix their own shit. This is what that looks like. I have these conversations.
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Oh god was that street harassment video really 2014?!
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The relentless march of time, my friend.
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