When u r emotionally immature + on some level you know u r unhealthy + u were denied a healthy stable upbringing, how can you expect to raise happy healthy children? Accepting you are in a permanent state of childhood on some level means acknowledging youβre unfit to raise kids.
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The problem with most people who have Cluster B disorders is they want to be loved. They decide to baby trap a spouse in (often times an abusive relationship) + the children are used as mere instruments of gratification. Learning to accept the road less travelled + trying to find
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Happiness alone, is d better option. Finding ways to keep stable, healthy, reciprocal relationships w ppl who will accept u as u r, helps w healing. If u can take care of pets, companionship from an animal is healing too. Children cannot create stability for dysfunctional adults.
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Nature doesn't care whether you are happy or stable. It genetically programs you to propagate the species, and only a few of us slip thru the cracks of this onslaught of instinct and conditioning.
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I feel so blessed that I slipped through the cracks. Best thing that could have ever happened to me.
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