I think she might be talking about grieving. Grieving sucks. It will go on and on. It won't stop. You have to stop it yourself. This is difficult. But you have to stop grieving or that shit will kill you and not in a good way.
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"Weeping is not the same thing as crying. It takes your whole body to weep, and when it's over, you feel like you don't have any bones left to hold you up."
~Sarah Ockler