When I was at the funeral, there was a long line of people waiting to have a moment with the deceased's widow and family, and I remember feeling like we were all lined up at the slaughterhouse, looking at each other, waiting to see who's next to be terminated
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My GF's mom's pals (80s) gently tease 1 another after funerals surprisingly good-naturedly about whose turn it'll be, next, to "be in the box" as they call it. U R seen as un-caring or dismissive of our deepest feelings when U simply tell the truth of it, but - there we go: Poof!
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