Be healthily selfish. If not, you can't survive in this jungle. Everyone is that way: in other words, all people are moderately altruistic and appropriately egoistic. If you're truly altruistic and loving, people will label you "egoistic" and "arrogant."
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Well, if you are TRULY altruistic and loving, they will plot against you, trump up some false charges, have you arrested, tortured and then hung on a cross until dead. Maybe not exactly like that but something to that effect.
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Yes, I know what you mean. I exaggerated it a bit. In any case, they will persecute and make you suffer anyway even if you're truly altruistic.
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