Ideally, you would give points for all forms of difficulty enhancements taken on by all participants in the race. All candidates crossed the finish line to get in the door. Then you look back and adjust for difficulty of the course they took.
I don’t know I think that’s so surface level. Life is much more complex than what you see on the surface my friend. Everybody goes through extreme challenges in life I suggest you look deeper
Just be yourself. I have Tourette’s which is always been an uphill battle for me. I went on to ow I g my own company But I will tell you this. The last thing I would ever want is for somebody to treat me different because of something like that. It’s insulting