Men are afraid that women will laugh at them. Women are afraid that men will kill them.
Margaret Atwood
He thought he could stalk her straight.
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Update on Jake. Keeps getting scarier.
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I had a stalker for years (over a decade). And the only reason he stalked me was because the girl he liked said hi to me and we talked for like 5 minutes. He saw that interaction and something in his brain just flipped and he stalked by coming into my place of employment ..
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...stalking me online, calling me and hanging up (have no idea how he got my number or figured out where I worked at the time). But I am a 6 foot 3 inch guy who played sports so I had a muscular build at the time and I was petrified of him. He just gave off these strong "I will..
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...shoot you in the face and not even think twice about it." It took serious intervention, a lawyer, a restraining order and some light "hood justice" until he was finally more scared of me than I was of him.
For a woman to go through that is just horrible. Absolute terror.
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The craziest thing is that the woman I talked to for 5 minutes was just a friend I knew from a class we shared. We were literally just talking about the teacher's teaching style and an upcoming mid-term. I wasn't interested in her like that and she wasn't in me -- but this guy...
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..saw the entire interaction as some type of "contest" that started between him and me. He had to make sure I knew that he was better than me and could have the women easily and that I wasn't as good as him. He said these things when he stalked me on AOL (I know, old school)...
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... anyway, getting stalked is terrifying and a lot of men just don't take a hint or worse, they make the woman their "goal" to be achieved at any cost -- potentially her life.
Once they latch on to you, you're basically screwed.