Ever notice how the men who tell lesbians being a lesbian is a choice, are the very men who if it were a choice, would be driving women to become lesbians by the thousands?
I still don't understand how some people think sexual preference is a "choice" -- It's a choice so much as someone who is bi-sexual makes a decision on whether they want to date a man or a woman but even then they date who the most fall in love with.