last night i had this meltdown to a friend abt all u People on this site and my friend was like u should post this! this morning i got utterly sniped by the lovely twitter product team but i am still gonna post bc i think it is kinda useful to contextualize the reply limit debate
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the big difference to me between qts and replies is that qts go to the quoter's audience whereas replies go to the op's audience, which means that asshole randos are highly incentivized to reply for attention. personally i get way more substanceless bullshit replies than qts
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this might change with the new "retweets with comments" view which attaches qts to the op. this gives more impact to qts but also i think it'd be wrong to roll out reply limits without it as there needs to be some path to accountability visible from the original tweet
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let's go back to 3) sometimes i am an asshole to my sweet, loyal, dumb followers. this apparently feels unjustified to many so let me explain that when u are a girl online, lots of men think it's ok to be extremely, insanely, terrifyingly familiar with u all the fucking time
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some women (n. "egirls") enjoy this dynamic and have a lot of fun with it! i do not. i rarely post photos of myself or inviting tweets or encouraging replies, and yet even when i was in school and only posted about like, compilers i got this kind of dm constantlypic.twitter.com/vwmswAxWrs
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esp when using my real name & face in a small industry it is very uncomfy to get flirty replies from eg the head of design at (big redacted co) or the former cto of (big redacted co) as well as random software engineers all over sf it's fucking weird as hell and i hate it!
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and turns out when i finally snapped and started being an asshole to reply guys and following through on blocking them, the volume of uncomfortable & overfamiliar replies & dms went down by a lot. on the flip side i get more vicious harassment bc of course you can't win
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not all women experience this and not all that do are bothered by it but a lot are! and until reply limits there was no way to avoid it besides telling people to fuck off all the time. i joined twitter fun & fresh & excited and i apologize but this is an unending wave of bullshit
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reply limits aren't gonna Solve annoying idiots online but there are a lot of people here experiencing death by a thousand cuts every day and some kind of paradigm shift is needed. frankly i think the new implementation is fairly well thought out! but should be watched carefully
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anyways thx for reading i hope this was at minimum entertaining for ur wednesday. i'd love to discuss the new feature but if your reply is not more substantive than just "boo hoo i want people to listen to my opinions" i do not give a shit and will block you :) have a nice day
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