stephanie

talking w friend about the scourge of guys who are actually very good at a lot of things but act with just a lil too much confidence when stepping outside their areas of core competence and think they still don't have to ask questions until it's too late

oh you absolutely have to leave your comfort zone but i think when your actions have consequences on other people there's a balance to be struck between learning & fucking shit up before asking other people to clean up your messes for you

i think in some things yes, in a lot of things if you never ask for feedback you might just do the wrong thing and actually miss the opportunity to learn stuff. also idk if we just differ in principle on this one but generally i think being an unaware asshole is bad