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    1. stephanie‏ @isosteph Jan 5
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      vcs love 2 be like wanna be perfectly content & self satisfied like me? just find your perfect partner buy a home in the perfect location have your partner pump out some babies see it’s so easy!!

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    2. stephanie‏ @isosteph Jan 5
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      “having kids” is a thing soooo frequently espoused by men in tech as the best thing that ever happened to them lmfao 35% of pregnant women develop hemorrhoids and 90% of them literally tear their fuckin vaginas open during birth but tell me abt how ur kid taught u to value family

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    3. Omar Ismail‏ @omarismail Jan 5
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      As a parent I find this a weird take. My guess is that the vast majority (i.e. 99%) of mothers also say that children are the best thing. Pregnancy and birth is 40 wks + 48 hours. Parenthood is for decades. My wife barely remembers the pregnancy/birth times.

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    4. stephanie‏ @isosteph Jan 5
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      ofc mothers are glad they had their kids but how many would describe them as a "life hack"? how many men are risking permanent bodily damage for those kids? re: decades of parenthood, how many men are cooking for their kids, remembering their friends, picking them up from school?

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    5. stephanie‏ @isosteph Jan 5
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      how many women sacrificed careers for those kids while their partners didn't? how many of these men who talk about how great kids are didn't give a single shit about women or mothers at work before it became personal? just a total lack of self awareness here jesus christ

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    6. Jacopo Nardiello  🇪🇺 🇮🇹‏ @jnardiello Jan 6
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      Total facepalm. Ugly truth: most couples out there are balanced and actually share duties. Not 1920 anymore. And yes, men have all rights to claim joy from fatherhood. You have too much spare energies to waste judging others.

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    7. Leigh Honeywell @  🏡‏Verified account @hypatiadotca Jan 6
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      This is simply not factual according to all the research: domestic labour is still wildly unequal. Eghttp://theconversation.com/why-we-still-struggle-with-work-home-conflict-in-women-and-men-112698 …

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    8. Jacopo Nardiello  🇪🇺 🇮🇹‏ @jnardiello Jan 6
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      Not claiming that there are no issues - there are many, starting with maternity leave and career. Especially in the US. In Europe things are slightly better, far from perfect. Yet original message is a brutal generalization.

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    9. Leigh Honeywell @  🏡‏Verified account @hypatiadotca Jan 6
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      It is easy to dismiss it as a generalization when doing so lets you refuse to see how it advantages you.

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    10. Jacopo Nardiello  🇪🇺 🇮🇹‏ @jnardiello Jan 6
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      The generalization is condemning men (like... normal people, not necessarily abusive partners or something) for expressing love for their kids, and it’s unnecessary. Implicit advantage is a thing. I’m Not dismissing actual problems and challenges women face on a daily basis.

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      stephanie‏ @isosteph Jan 6
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      it’s not about expressing love for their kids it’s fucking great that men do that. it’s about flexing “having kids” as a cool life hack they did to up their happiness when their partners are often shouldering disproportionate pain & sacrifice & work

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        2. stephanie‏ @isosteph Jan 6
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          yeah parenting is more equal than it used to be but these are often the same men who talk about working 80 hour workweeks — who do you think is taking care of their kids during all that time like come on dude

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        3. Leigh Honeywell @  🏡‏Verified account @hypatiadotca Jan 6
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          Exactly. Jacopo- re-read the tweet Steph dunked on; it’s not expressing love, it’s treating kids as a fucking weird instrumentalist productivity tool. Deeply wack.

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