𝕱𝖊𝖒𝖎𝖓𝖎𝖘𝖙𝖎𝖓𝖌 🧞‍♀️

where my picky bitches at?

ew and if you got single shamed at some point during this holiday season, I am sorry

why is it always women with man-child husbands chirping “but don’t ya want a man?” I mean.. don’t you?

“You’re gonna end up alone because you have such unrealistic standards” omg!! alone?? and happy? OR with some who meets my standards? wow, sounds great tbh

“You’re so picky” = you have standards for your life, you know your worth and aren’t willing to settle for mediocrity

Maybe they just aren’t giving you what you need and deserve. Maybe they’re inconsistent in their communication and affection. Feeling confused and hurt by this is NORMAL. Address it and tell them what you need from them. Tell them consistency in a relationship is crucial to you.

Maybe you two are just incompatible. You don’t want the same things. Or maybe you do but you two just have completely different ways of loving, giving and caring. That’s okay. They’re just not the right one for you. Stop fighting and forcing. You two just don’t fit.

Maybe you’re being toxic towards them too. Maybe your past has left some wounds that you’re unaware of. That’s okay. Recognize it. Then face it head on. Self-awareness will change your life. It’s okay to admit that maybe you have some issues within yourself to try and resolve.

Stop blaming yourself for the disagreements in your relationships and start blaming the real perpetrators. Insecurities. Incompatibility. Inconsistency. Work on yourself and remember that you can’t force someone to be there for you. You can’t change anyone but YOU.

Don’t let those cozy holiday photos fool you. There’s always more than meets the eye, especially when it comes to a toxic guy. Focus on healing and being the best you possible. You’re free. It’s time to move forward with your amazing life.

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