Ida Skibenes  ❄️

I don't feel right leading the charge on this but I just don't understand how the discussion over Biden putting his hands on women's shoulders is being framed as the same as literal sexual assault.

It’s a hit job. Unfortunately many on our side are falling for it.

Heck, I’d rather have Biden’s hands on my hoo-ha than have trump’s hands on my shoulders!

This is the point I was making Ida, this way it makes better sense ;/)

I knew a lovely man years ago who was very tactile, always kissing hands & patting shoulders. I felt uncomfortable as I was very shy physically then. BUT I knew that was my issue, not his. I sensed he was a genuinely nice person. I just smiled & tried to learn from him.

...buuuuut if you told him it made you uncomfortable & he kept doing it, that's his issue, not yrs. Yr not obligated to accommodate the violation of yr boundaries—& while boundary lines vary & are as debatable as anything else...

I don't think Biden did anything wrong.

I don’t either we’ve lost the day and age where we can go up to somebody give them a hug give him a squeeze of the arm tell them at a boy are you did a good job I don’t think he did anything wrong either I think he’s a standup guy