Nia

yess victim blamingg

Yess thinking that minors don’t have a mind of their own and can’t do shit willingly/seduce adults just because their minors !!

Zack isn’t in the right, but at the end of the day, it was always Nairos responsibility. Regardless of what Zack did, and how he felt about it immediately after, he’s still a victim. Nairo fucked up big time. And he deserves everything coming to him.

Didn’t say he wasn’t a victim, just stated he’s also in the wrong

The thing that makes this victim blaming is that it puts the focus on what CaptainZack did, which isn't right and is why we say 'don't victim blame'. Nia has had to say countless times why she doesn't defend Nairo - because her take minimizes that role. It's not what we need rn

It’s not minimizing anything

I agree completely, but as someone who has worked closely with teenagers as a young adult, you need to realize that you MUST reject their advances. No ifs ands or buts. Kids are stupid and will often have crushes on trusted authority figures, doesn’t give you the right to accept

All I'm getting from this thread is that ya'll wanna move the age of consent down to 15. This is not "woke". This is setting precedence for more abusers to get away by victim blaming.

Because this is definitely about being “woke” goes to show how much you got from the whole situation. Have a good day peter