I often know a situation is done but I don’t know how to exit because at the same time I see the beauty and the ability to do better if we put the work in together— and then I internalized “people leaving” and disloyal, flaky, and selfish —
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So when I make it in my mind “damn this person ain’t treating me w the same love n respect” or “I’m really bored of this/I don’t like them anymore” — I shame those thoughts away and just stick the relationship thru. —
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The next time I’m with someone and I notice- “damn this person ain’t treating me w the same love n respect” or “I’m really bored of this/I don’t like them anymore”— I’m goig to tell myself “Wow my love, it seems as though you’ve found a new boundary,” —
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— “let me support you self by respecting this boundary and putting it into place immediately/as soon as possible. I wanna respect your changing mind, feelings and reality.”
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