Saying that men shouldn't be promiscuous doesn't mean you HATE sex.
I am not "trad", I'm just a regular person saying reality. Sleeping with a woman on the first date means that you ARE in fact using her. You are not doing it out of love, you just met. twitter.com/boredsapien121
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no I love her
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Ok I am more and more convinced these posts should be ignored because it's just people who cannot think based on context and they need stupid rules for evthing. Like dogs
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Having sex on the first date does not necessarily mean using smbdy for sex. I have had 2 long term relationships (>1 year) where
I had sex on 2nd date. It’s not exactly 1st date but it’s still super early
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These things are situational. You have to judge the intent of the other person and calibrate it based on your intent.
A better rule would be “be honest to the other person about your intentions and don’t try to make it seem as if you wanna commit more than you do”
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Altysanne I’m broken hearted to hear you’ve been psyopped into thinking one year is a long term when really what you deserve is a lifetime of commitment 🥺
True Daniel.
But the reason it didn't last was not that I couldn't muster enough commitment from them
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