Took me so long to realize that I'm ugly just because nobody wants to say it. So much wasted time trying to go through shut doors.
Tip: if people don't tell you that you're good looking, then you're ugly. Accept it and adjust accordingly.
This is such a 3head take. Behave as if you’re beautiful, and then gauge people’s reactions. If they don’t show interest, it could be for a multitude of reasons. Regardless, move on immediately. Stop trying to go through closed doors and then coping with why they were shut.
Attractiveness is a spectrum. What some ppl find repulsive, others may have a fetish for. Outside of disease and general deformity, just being in shape and well groomed, having a strong personality and your shit together will get your very far.
I was born with a facial deformity (cleft lip) that makes my face very noticeably asymmetrical in an unattractive way. Always amusing to see myself listed among the caveats to the reassurances.