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Prof. Grace Lavery
@graceelavery
🫁🤡🧼 Prof. ; PLEASE MISS ; PLEASURE AND EFFICACY . Repped by at Neon Literary. Trans, happy, lucky.🧼🤡🫁
Brooklyn, NYgracelavery.orgJoined August 2009

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'Polychromatic, wild and joyous' Maggie Nelson 'Hilarious and sexy and terrifying in its brilliance' Carmen Maria Machado 'Maddening, snort-inducingly hilarious' Lauren John Joseph The fabulous 's PLEASE MISS is out in paperback TODAY!!
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One of the highlights of last year was 's visit to the UK - a total blast. Her memoir is like no other, a complete riot, bewildering, dazzling, slyly moving, genuinely laugh-out-loud funny, and you can get it NOW in sexy paperback:
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'Polychromatic, wild and joyous' Maggie Nelson 'Hilarious and sexy and terrifying in its brilliance' Carmen Maria Machado 'Maddening, snort-inducingly hilarious' Lauren John Joseph The fabulous @graceelavery 's PLEASE MISS is out in paperback TODAY!! dauntbookspublishing.co.uk/book/please-mi
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last year, the inimitable, fabulous took her brilliant memoir PLEASE MISS on tour. Gorgeous bookshops, fabulous chairs & fellow authors, star booksellers - we had a blast. The pb is out next week, ready to dazzle & woo even more of you:
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I suspect I’m going to stay off notwithstanding—being off of the hell site has felt great, and so much productivity!—but I’m glad that the archive is now up and searchable, especially given the information around GC abuse of grievance procedures that I posted over the last year.
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if you need proof that Bersani has trans potential, the transphobic responses to my marking his death would do the job
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“The suicidal ecstasy of being a woman” indeed. Just when I start feeling just a bit sorry for Lavery, getting so totally ratioed & all, more misogynistic shit comes down the pipeline. It’s like a toddler stamping its foot for attention. twitter.com/graceelavery/s…
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Something for . This is *not* how consent works, on the internet or anywhere else. In fact, this is how rape culture works.
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Replying to @GastlySundae @graceelavery and 3 others
I'm not sure how you think the internet works. When you consent to having your photo posted on the internet, you consent to *everyone* on the internet seeing it.
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reading Bersani at grad school taught me that indeed they couldn’t be, and that therefore one needed to split ethics from sexuality entirely, stop romanticizing sex, and stop eroticizing ethics. now i am a degenerate perv and able to establish ethical commitments i can sustain
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I went through a whole period of my life where I just thought sex wasn’t important to me. Aged like 20-25. I think it was bc I felt so averse to my own desires that I stifled them, feeling instinctively that they couldn’t be reconciled with my moral commitments.
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i always find this sort of thing interesting and horrifying. people can actually try to censor those who refer to fascism as fascism, much like Andrew Doyle does, and still think of themselves as free speech absolutists. scary.
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Hey everyone: just because the GCs are clearly want me to do the debate, doesn’t mean that I shouldn’t. We’re not going to persuade them, and they’re going to claim victory whatever happens. They’re a well-organized band of trolls, and that’s *all* they are. Not feminists—trolls.
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also, to be clear 3) if the events go ahead, no trans people should attend them, or give their money or data to the fascist enablers that are profiting off transphobia. fuck all of these people, i have no interest in legitimating these ppl and i’m not going to be nice to them
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i’m saying this because i definitely want it to be clear 1) i don’t think that Helen Joyce is smart or that her book is interesting; I think they are *powerful* and need to be demolished; 2) i still think no-platforming fascists is the right move and the UK should have tried it
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and ideally her grift, which plays on the bigotry and fear of a large cohort of British idiots, would have been corrected *long* before it got to this stage. but as with Stock, Bindel, Singal, Doyle, etc., the UK establishment has utterly failed to scrutinize transphobic ideology
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The problem with the policy of deplatforming terfs is that they currently have the platforms. But that’s shocking proof of the feebleness of UK institutions to transphobic hate, and isn’t an argument against deplatforming. I don’t consider Helen Joyce, a fascist, “worth” engaging
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I also want to say that the following has been obvious since jump: that GCs are not going to be convinced; that they will plan to share clips of me looking dumb; that Twitter will probably take the GC side. And so *I would not have gotten this far if I hadn’t thought about that*.
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I wish that it had been brought up any of the many times I’d mentioned it before now, when I sought community input, when it might have been possible to de-escalate more easily. But if I have to eat the shit, I will—I *absolutely* will not do this if it is going to harm people.
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I just want to say, also, that i’m getting DMs from trans people who work on the front lines who are telling me they *do* want me to do these events. And others who are telling me “the community has spoken” and that the issue has been resolved. That’s quite frustrating!
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So if you are trans and resident in the UK, and would like to talk with me about this, please DM me your email address and I will set up a scheduling email. I do recognize the very serious challenges of the present moment and I want to discuss them.
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