"xyz shld be the standard" "it's just basic human decency like do u expect a cookie lol" here's the thing: it may be true that the base standard shldn't require extra reinforcement, but the cumulative effect of that sort of messaging is "don't try for the base standard"
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we've been over this w/ depression, for instance: at some of my worst spots, i was barely doing anything, and shaming myself for barely doing anything, which made me want to do *even less*. and a lot of ppl can relate to this!
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turns out there was a terrible feedback loop constantly running there. i've been able to help myself by rewarding myself for even my minimal efforts to do more and better things. so if i see some1 else barely meeting basic standards...is it rly rational to treat them differently?
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obv i'm not responsible for curing other ppl or managing their health or whatnot but...i think it's not a good idea to uh actively contribute to unhelpful feedback loops
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Stuff like this is part of what dragged me out of this horrible existential crisis i had for a year after i decided i hated every fascist i knew and decided to leave that scene. also yoga lol
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