“I feel like there is no “me” outside of my white/upper middle class/cisgender identity. I feel like my literal existence hurts people, like I’m always taking up space that should belong to someone else.”https://www.nytimes.com/2018/08/14/style/white-guilt-privilege.html …
"I’m always taking up space that should belong to someone else" true.... a person with a basic will or sense of self, and not an ideological bodiless sleeper.