Friendly reminder that when you hurt someone you care about; you don’t get to decide you didn’t do it. All you can do is accept blame and try to make amends. Sometimes it’s better not to try and defend yourself.
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Tricky, also extra tricky because I know you. Idk man; if you genuinely didn’t do it, it’s really tempting to put your hands up and say “I didn’t do this!” But sometimes it’s easier to submit now and maybe later after they’ve calmed down reexplain the situation? That’s what I-
try to do. Also evaluate if /you/ want this person in your life, if they’re accusing you of things you didn’t do and calling you a bad person.