For clarification on this, I’m the one who fucked up; I’m not subtweeting anyone.
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Friendly reminder that when you hurt someone you care about; you don’t get to decide you didn’t do it. All you can do is accept blame and try to make amends. Sometimes it’s better not to try and defend yourself.
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Thanks. Twitter will use this to make your timeline better. UndoUndo
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I just got into an argument with some1 and honestly I told them I’m sorry if it came off that way & I’m not invalidating their feelings but I didn’t treat them (via text no less) as they’re saying I did. Especially if you know me. They were essentially saying I’m a bad person.
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Tricky, also extra tricky because I know you. Idk man; if you genuinely didn’t do it, it’s really tempting to put your hands up and say “I didn’t do this!” But sometimes it’s easier to submit now and maybe later after they’ve calmed down reexplain the situation? That’s what I-
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Feelings are always valid
It's up to the people to communicate on how to resolve those feelings, not invalidate them. Though I'm not sure "blame" should be a focus -
Maybe blame was a bad word. Responsibility is what I should have said. Pretty much you don’t get to decide you didn’t fuck up when you did.
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Lmao so ur saying if someone gets upset for nothing they are always right as long as they are upset
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I’m saying people don’t get upset for no reason; there’s always a reason. If you think they’re upset for absolutely no reason, you’re not putting yourself in their shoes and you’re just invalidating their feelings.
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