This is relevant again. If you say something, no matter how good your intentions are, and the person you’re saying it to tells you it bothers them, and then multiple other people tell you it bothers THEM also and even WHY, and you choose to keep saying it, you’re being an assholehttps://twitter.com/ReallyRisu/status/1099890210467430402 …
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@ the people at my job that say I’m pretty for being “x” ethnicity or I have great hair for being a black girl or my fave non racial one “You looked super super cute with short hair!! Why did you ever grow it out???”
It’s also fair to point out that “x” ethnicity is almost always wrong BONUS: how could I forget “omg you don’t look black though you’re so pretty”
