> None of this means that drawing a circle around some things and calling them “myself” is always wrong. Just that there’s no clear “self” that matches reality in all contexts. This is good news, it means that the self is a thing to be played with.https://www.ribbonfarm.com/2019/12/25/predictable-identities-23-the-self/ …
People quickly get defensive, reflexively guarding against a loss of a cartesian "self." But recognizing that You are many You-s, a whole bunch of We-s, and constantly shifting information streams is... ...endlessly fun.