A fuck ton of SV hate is warranted but people deriding this only because they dislike Austen and his YC proximity do people a disservice. This is more communication than most couples do.https://twitter.com/Austen/status/1140790885757489152 …
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Communication is fundamentally hard. Compromise is harder still. Selecting a protocol that you're both comfortable with which enables you to do both better is good.
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I think it's that calling it a one-on-one that triggers an absurdity bell. I mean, this is coming from someone who thinks a GitHub PR is the most romantic proposal — so, take it with a grain of salt.
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Yea it is — that register imports a lot of stuff (to people who don't use that register or don't like it) that renders the whole thing absurd. Sounds like 'synergy' or something.
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Flip side: I'm convinced that John Gottman relationship-repair statements (with some notable exceptions
) would make the discourse in out-of-control GitHub issues infinitely better… (Yes, my mom *is* a therapist)
https://www.gottman.com/blog/r-is-for-repair/ …
cc @hspter Getting to Yes!pic.twitter.com/BgYAk6Nlaf
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I think you could probably import the whole DBT (Dialectic Behaviour Therapy) skillset to the workplace, and the world would be better for it.
Mindfulness
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Oh, how could I forget Distress Tolerance?!
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