This is so true. I also feel that I'm constantly throwing around ideas and help and what I consider value because I feel very rich in them, I have a lot. When someone then exploits this it hurts. But I still have more of it, so....
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Replying to @TheAnnaGat
Ugh. If I'm reading it correctly, it sounds like one of those, "you asked for help given premise (A) but really needed it for (B) and the deception was deliberate" episodes. That particular exploit is rough. I haven't one one of those since I was working as part of a shitty team.
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Replying to @generativist
Yes. I tend to underestimate how much information people want from me (a lot) and how much they really want to help (not a lot). What I learn from this is that I really want to help people and to help them avoid this kind of stuff.
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Replying to @TheAnnaGat
There is a very good book that I have not read, do not know if it exists, and, want to read, on rules for boundary-spanners/information-brokers.
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Replying to @generativist @TheAnnaGat
(I'd actually like to work on this more some day. Especially with my friend
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Replying to @generativist @sommerjo
Oh wonderful. Happy to join the discussion. I'd like to say that "trust may be our most important currency" but I really don't want to invent the blockchain here
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Replying to @TheAnnaGat
My dissertation is mostly about how trust as an expectation of reliability induces socially-patterned errors in our beliefs, so you're in good company :)
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Replying to @generativist
Oh. Can trust also lead to error correction / mitigation?
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Replying to @TheAnnaGat
My model is a lot more abstract than that so I wouldn't want to mislead but buy implication, I think: yes. The act of entertaining an idea in good faith willfully discards social cues that your brain automatically uses, almost necessarily assuming trust, even if for a moment!
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Replying to @generativist
I'm realising in a way this is also about that “Three Prologues to Language” by Anna Gát https://link.medium.com/WNBJyQDRxV - creating distrustful non-cooperative public language --> distrust between individuals too
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I already booked marked it a few days ago for post defense pleasure reading.
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Replying to @TheAnnaGat @generativist
This whole "Twitter friendship", this was just a ruse!
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