1/ You choose your online handle; it's an identifier that reflects who you are.
You don't choose your birth name; it's a name that reflects who your parents were.
(I'm channeling someone's earlier tweets but I can't find it -- maybe @Aelkus or @sonyaellenmann?)
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6/ Personally, the time in my life when I ideologically identified as a rugged individualist and the time when I thought preferred pronouns were absolute bullshit were exactly the same period.
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7/ That's really weird and obviously inconsistent. But, I think it's part of a persistent illusion: individualists become blind to the existence of other individuals, especially when their individuality and the social default (to borrow from
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8/ I'm sure folks with a large distance between their endowed identity and the one they forged for themselves have clearer explanations. But, I'm just pawing at my own prior mistakes… …because it sure seems like the individualist-"fuck your pronouns" correlation remains high.
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