I've realized that the main reason why I'm not great at sharing difficult feelings is that it's less effort for me to think through the situation and resolve the discomfort myself. I've gotten great at that, and don't practice the sharing muscle.
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As I've gotten more comfortable with being wrong, I've started spending a lot more time analyzing past interactions to see how I can improve. Big upgrade from "flinching away" and moving on from the discomfort
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Loving to write code and dig through data made it easy for me to do things that seemed impossible to others. Of course, it slowed my progress in other places. A well-timed conversation with the right person could've replaced months of hacking on a project.
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Often a knee jerk reaction I have is to lecture someone. DO NOT SUCCUMB. One thing that works for me is to sit down and take notes on what I'm going to say, and how they'll respond. Once I'm fully prepared to give the lecture, I archive the notes and skip the lecture.
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Gary Basin 🤳 je proslijedio/a tweet korisnika/ceGary Basin 🤳
I’m an analytical person. This seems to mean I automatically jump to how things work — the details, the gears. Diving into complexity makes it difficult for me to zoom out. Alas, a true superpower is to present things to people in a friendly, simple way. https://twitter.com/garybasin/status/1210609555236884480?s=21 …https://twitter.com/garybasin/status/1210609555236884480 …
Gary Basin 🤳 je dodan/na,
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I used to be the kind of person that would ask people "quick questions" instead of just Googling it
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Everything is equally complicated. Some things are better documented. Some people have more experience with a given challenge than others. Everything that I’m not good at is complicated and hard
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I have a strong track record of finding ways to Appear Smart in a conversation rather than trying to Empathize with someone's perspective.
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What does it mean to be Smart? Just because I can do things that require thinking in abstractions doesn't mean I make good decisions
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