incels don't think non-virgin incels are a thing and this triggers me
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of course, incels who are ugly often feel entitled to date people who are 10/10 on the attractive scale, but that doesn't really matter. these people have deeply rooted psychological problems -- ones that i share -- that are more simple than "lol go out more and date on your lvl"
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the only reason i have had any sexual or romantic partner is because of some people's willingness to overlook my instability, and my use of drugs to facilitate aggressive behaviour (benzos in particular.) without that, i'd also be an incel in a full sense
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i basically never go outside. i have IRL friends (who are less interesting my internet friends) but i pathologically avoid them for reasons i don't fully understand. i hate dating, especially gendered dating. there is more to "incelness" than having unrealistic standards
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it is true that if incels *got out more* were not overly discouraged by emotional rejection, they would have more success. but loaded phrases like "get out more "just treat women like people" "lower your standards "don't be sensitive to rejection" are platitudes not solutions
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i hope it is clear where i am coming from. the incel community hates me because i am feminist and not a virgin, but i'm basically an incel because i pathologically avoid any conceivable scenario that would get me any kind of romantic or sexual partner. there is nuance here
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