well i think that is part of how reddit works, these subs streamline and mystify things at the same time. they relentlessly police themselves and the language shifts and the hobby is just keeping up with it, being one of the in-crowd.
i think part of like the redditification of being an incel, or whatever, is that subs like this turn moaning into a hobby. and there's a really concrete process there. think a lot of it stems from how 4chan worked too, no one wanting to be a "newfag" or w/e