As stated earlier, I have no trauma from these events. Each time, I was annoyed at what I perceived as a guy trying it on out of nowhere - but then, I had zero literary on what constituted assault, and had internalised a lot of bullshit about what male behaviour was as a teen.
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A parent who teaches their child to say "please" and "thank you" at home might easily deny those courtesies to a service worker. A bro who reacts with hostility to being hugged or touched by relatives without warning might persistently grab at unwilling girls at parties.
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I've wandered away from my point a bit, but to summarise: - abuse/assault are defined by actions, not traumatic reactions - selfish opportunism fuels a lot of abuse & shitty behaviour - different people react differently, but we still need common standards for law & courtesy
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