Toddlers have brains like sieves. I have to remind mine all the time how to tell which shoe goes on which foot (the fish go on the outside).
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Replying to @fozmeadows
Because toddlers, even if you've told them something 900 times, will frequently still need a reminder. It's a learning process.
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And it drives me nuts how often my trying to actively teach my kid politeness, manners and boundaries is seen as weird or unnecessary.
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The worst time was this: he and another boy were smashing cars together; my son got carried away & whacked him. So I called out, etc.
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The other kid was clearly upset, but his mother was annoyed at him for not shrugging it off. Told him it was barely a hit, it didn't matter.
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I don't know remember if it was her or her partner who told him that boys were tough, to man up about it; only that it made me feel sick.
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This kid was FOUR, tops. And he was being told to accept being hit by a bigger, stronger kid as an okay thing, the right way to be a boy.
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People see me hovering over my tall, strong kid and they think it's ridiculous, because they think, "Oh, but he can take care of himself!"
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Motherfucker, I KNOW he can take care of himself. I'm trying to teach him how to use that strength RESPONSIBLY, so he doesn't hurt YOUR kid.
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And the fact that so many people *do not get this* - that they expect some Natural Child Order to just sort it all out - really upsets me.
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This thread has kind of gotten away from me a bit - I have a lot of Feelings about this, obviously - but I'm going to try & tie it together.
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Replying to @fozmeadows
1) Babies aren't babies forever. 2) Children at different ages need different things. 3) Kids don't learn manners in a fucking vacuum.
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