a friend said something earlier abt posting nsfw threadfics on twitter being a type of exhibitionism, and it got me thinking about how, however much we joke about knowing our friends kinks but not their names, we don't talk about what that MEANS as a space or as a community
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we don't talk about it at least in part bc it's been used as ammunition by people seeking to close these sorts of spaces, but the question is always there, in the background: Are we (in nsfw fandom) all doing a Sex Thing together? so let's talk about it!
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I'm leaving this open to replies beyond my immediate circle but ftr this is a conversation I'm interested in having specifically with the people with whom I nebulously share this nebulous erotic experience, so I might not respond to strangers.
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Replying to @whenasinsilks
I tend to think of writing porn for friends as a queerplatonic thing, but possibly that’s just me
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i can definitely see that but also queerplatonic does not necessarily mean non-sexual! i also like this because queerplatonic is definitely one of the harder to pin down types of named queer relationship, and one of the takeaways from tonight has been that whatever's going on,
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Replying to @whenasinsilks @fozmeadows
it's hella queer bc no one knows quite how to categorise it
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Exactly! I tend to think of it as being exactly as sexual (or not) as the participants believe it is, on a case by case basis
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