I read recently that many Evangelical men who claim sex addiction actually have a regular libido; they've just been raised to believe that regular sexuality is excessive/sinful and can't deal with it, and honestly I think there's a comparison to be made with purity/anti culture.
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here's the thing about sexual fantasies: we could try and plumb the cultural, specific, unique psychosexual origins of every single fantasy of every single person in search of The Reason Why We Like Stuff, or we could just accept that, actually, it doesn't have to matter.
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like. it can certainly be personally enlightening - and interesting, even! - to poke at why you enjoy a certain fantasy, but if it's just you in your head or a thing you work out in writing, even if written publicly on a site like AO3? it's not mandatory. just tag it & be free.
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