21-22 seem very much like "depends", 23 feels like "really sketchy but I can see it MAYBE working in some cases", and then at 24 I hit a flat "nope!" Over here 21-22 are v plausible ages to still be in uni if you e.g. Took a gap year, did a foundation year, did a 4 year course.
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Replying to @Vorvayne
23 is like "that age where you get spat out into the not-university adult world, if you weren't there already, but even if you were you feel suddenly like people expect you to be more together" so I guess I remember growing up a lot then.
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Replying to @Vorvayne
I mean, my husband and I have a 10 year age gap and started dating when I was nineteen, so like. I honestly think the age difference is less important than whether or not one party is abusive or a douche or entitled.
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Replying to @fozmeadows
I'm with you for the purposes of other people - tho if I had a 19 year old friend I'd ask them to be very...thoughtful about dating a 29 year old - but for me I remember at 24 the new 18 year old uni students started looking like children to me, so that seems like /my/ cutoff.
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Replying to @Vorvayne
I completely get why people tend to side-eye age gaps, but I think it’s a symptom rather than a cause, if that makes sense? A shitty partner will be shitty at any age; predators use more axes than age to prey on vulnerable partners; and comparability isn’t defined by a number.
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*compatability, GDI autocorrect
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