I briefly met Silverberg in 2018 at San Jose; he looked through me, not recognising my name even though I was on the list of Best Fan Writer nominees he was set to read out that evening. Neither man was rude, per se; they just weren't interested.
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But it doesn't have to be that way, is the point. That aloof indifference to any newcomers whose names you don't recognise - that shouldn't be the default, and I hate that so many writers and fans have just had to accept it as such.
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Because when I was a tiny new writer at my first EVER Industry Event, a small dinner at my publisher's place,
@FIRECATz greeted me happily and said nice things about my forthcoming book, which I hadn't even known she'd read. Because@KateElliottSFF and@Kit_Kerr talked to me.1 reply 7 retweets 323 likesShow this thread -
Because even when I embarrassed myself in full fangirl mode meeting
@TamoraPierce, she was kind and funny and, after I gave her a copy of my book, sought me out later to have me sign it. Because@robinhobb was gracious and friendly and warm.2 replies 12 retweets 483 likesShow this thread -
THAT was my introduction to fandom: established women making time for a newcomer, holding out a hand and acting as if I was in the right place. And that is what I think fandom should always strive to be, across all axes of marginalisation: a place where we welcome the future.
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Because the thing about the future? It rarely looks quite like the past, and you have to lay ground for it in the present. And that's impossible to do if your base approach to greeting *new* people is to be, on some level, tuning out anyone who Doesn't Already Matter.
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Is it really so hard to be welcoming? To look at newcomers and be excited just by their presence, without running a mental calculation about whether you want to endorse them; if they'll be worth the investment? Apparently, for some, it is. And they shouldn't be in charge.
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Replying to @fozmeadows
Thank you for all of this thread, Foz. Idk if you remember, but a few years ago, I (as a brand new editor) quaked in my boots a bit to offer to edit a book for you. Potentially unprofessional of me, but you were kind and gracious about it, which I truly appreciate, even now.
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I think if you had been harsh or dismissive in reply, I might have made very different choices. It's years later, but I'm completing my first solo anthology editing project, and that's partly because you, personally, were kind to me and didn't dismiss me when I said I could edit.
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