The 3 cardinal virtues of emotional maturity:
1. Communication - the capacity to explain our feelings
2. Trust - the capacity to stay calm as we find the words
3. Vulnerability - the capacity for inward strength amidst emotional nakedness
Your wife sounds very mature 
Me: hey babe, are you mad at me? Lauren: no I’m just feeling sad about our lack of communication today which is being expressed as anger and projected onto you Fights don’t get less frequent as you become more self-aware, they just become more complex
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Yes she’s extremely woke
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Or maybe they’re just allowed to be as complex as they’ve always been?
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Yes. I think it’s a form of entertainment. If we have to fight, can’t we at least show off our knowledge of psychology?
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@SarahAMcManus and I have recently been reading stuff by Daniel Wile (HT@uncatherio!) and it's really solid. Reading it together (separate copies) and laughing/facepalming about "oh man I do that!" has been a delight. Definitely recommend!https://twitter.com/uncatherio/status/1192919336496746496 … -
To elaborate, a lot of the dialogues he gives as examples in the book have similar levels of self-awareness as the Tiago+Lauren exchange, although Wile notes that many people don't have this level of introspection. I think it's therefore even more a resource to people who do!
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I see this as straggling and settling for a dynamic boundary. And in a Heraclitus like sense its the ceaseless war that keeps the fire alive.
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Yes we need Shiva and kali to fight for duality sake !
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Analysis is great as long as that added level of introspection leads to solution
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This is the point in the show where the Robot says, "Danger, Will Robinson."
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