The actions that harassers have on their victims can be permanently damaging -- both physically and mentally. I can only speak for myself but the amount of dread of having to share the same working space with someone who's a harasser is damning.
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Especially when you're so paranoid that speaking out against them or confronting them in the workplace could cost you your entire career. The mind games begin and then you fear that everyone around you knows what you've been through and won't believe you.
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Even then when the harasser gets exposed and (hopefully) booted out of the company, everybody knows. Everybody silently judges. You're not sure if things got better or worse. Things seem okay. Someone unfollows you on social media. Then others do too.
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The paranoia kicks in again. The dread and numbness are in perfect balance. Everybody knows. Do they know? I don't know. I try my best to smile around others to hide everything that's happened before. It still eats away at my thoughts. Every minute of my days.
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This stuff has long-term damage. I do not wish this upon anybody. I do wish though, that more people would listen and educate themselves to be better so that nobody else has to go through this sort of life-altering trauma in the future. Signed, One of many.
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