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but also all understanding is piecemeal, so leaning too heavily on a “A grade” model will eventually lead to more pain than leaning moderately on a “B grade” model, because all models are wrong to a degree we cannot know in advance
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on multiple separate occasions lately I’ve been struck by how tightly miserable people cling on to remarkably flimsy models of reality. there’s no nice way to point it out over plaintext. been writing drafts of an essay about this for months but still very dissatisfied
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rereading the first tweet you could say that in a sense it’s sort of true-through-recursion, like, I did become happier when I improved my model of happiness, which is a subset of my model of the world. So I started out with a vague premise that was directionally sort of okay…
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but a slight improvement in the model-of-happiness made it quickly evident that the more critical thing is actually to cultivate the courage to do what seems right. And “seems” here is a synthesis of thinking and feeling
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it all pretty quickly becomes a complicated mess, very hard to talk meaningfully about without getting lost in the details or otherwise oversimplifying to the point of inanity. I do think the pursuit is worthwhile and I would not discourage it
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best “advice” I could muster is probably something like “expect to be surprised, to question assumptions you didn’t realize you were making, and to reframe, re-evaluate, reformulate everything from scratch from time to time. and maybe try to see the humor in it all if you can”
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